शनिवार, 7 मई 2011

What we can learn from ....

People ask me who is favorite cricketer or favorite actor..My answer would be different but if you ask me who inspires me most....Then there are only two name those are Dev Anand and Sourav Ganguly.

Strange...nahi...whats common between these two and whats so special.... Is it because they are the best... No...because of their Never Say Die attitude and Cynically positive behavior. They proved themselves at their prime, they prove themselves after passing the prime, they prove themselves when most gets retired, they continue to do something when they were not required to do.

A Superstar actor and Superstar leader...... what we can learn from them..

The one of the successful captain of India, Does he need to come back at age of 39 when he has already entered, played and quit from international cricket on his own terms, but thrown from commercialization of the game on non sports reason after performing well in last version of commercialization of cricket. The answer to ants reason after performing well in last version of commercialization of cricket. The answer to a normal cricket will be No. But to someone who is known to be fighter ...the story can be different....

It doesn’t matter whether he succeed or not, It doesn’t matter what he does in next 5 matches on ground.. he has already proved once again why he is what he is....Why he can do anything even when odds are not at all supportive.

Why they have to see bad times after proving so much, why we have to see the bad time.... It is not unfair that we struggled to get even basics when we need the most and get it abundance when we don’t require. Is it true ...I don’t feel so... may be our idea of judge the situations differs depending on what we think.

When I was in school, I never got 60% (except 10) and I used to consider all my friends who used to get 60+ as genius or ultra gifted. And then when I cleared Gate with 99+ score suddenly even the most brilliant Engineers of India looks an ordinary student to me. So something changed that was my yardstick. Its again not luck but out suitability to cope with situations determines our thinking. Success is not only thing in life its the failure too which helps us learn. We assume that we are born only see good times, in good times we forgets we are going to see bad times too as life is sinusoidal waves, it only when we are not happy we analyze these things more which create more situation listed of bad time.

So thinking that bad thing will not happen is foolish, acknowledging that good and bad things happens and wondering why more bad thing to us is next level of enlightenment. The highest level is to know both are part of life bound to happen. When I never credited anyone for all my success then why I should blame anyone when thing will not go right. Deciding what we want to do and then do the same irrespective of other’s view point. As their is only one life and I am owner of that and I am controller of that....as they say being player or victim the choice is yours...